So, you've started to masturbate — congratulations! Stimulating your clit is a pretty surefire way to bring yourself to a limb-shaking climax, and figuring that out is a game-changer. Maybe you've even pillaged your household items to act as sex toys while you're still in your clit-curious phase. several household items. But, we're here to tell you: It's time to put that electric toothbrush down! Not only do gynecologists not approve of that particular sex toy substitution (the bristles can actually go so hard that they hurt your vulva!), but there is a whole world of vibrators that work so much better. In fact, that's their entire job. Vibrators are designed for pleasure and are actually not intimidating at all. But we get that there are a whole lot of them out there, and you might be confused about where to start. Don't know the difference between a clitoral stimulator and clitoral sucker? And what about G-spot activation? Not sure if you want anything activated?
Take a deep breath and listen up. Buying your first sex toy should be fun and exciting! Taking the first steps to explore your own body via sexual pleasure is a milestone, and it should be celebrated, not tinged with dread. Our pro tip? If you're new to the idea of sex toys, it's possible you haven't inserted anything into your vagina yet (or for a while), so external-use toys are the safest bet. Plus, (as you already know!) clitoral stimulation is the easiest way to achieve an orgasm for most vagina-possessing people. That's why I've compiled the best user-friendly vibrators for beginners, focused on wands, bullets, suction vibrators, and other clit-centric vibes. Because we're ready to convert you from being clit-curious to enjoying the clitastically mind-blowing pleasure of a vibrator, beginners welcome. and get right to the pleasure part of self-pleasure.
Keep reading to learn about the best vibrators for beginners, so you can put that toothbrush in the trash and make your first sex toy purchase with confidence.
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